I DO NOT CHOOSE TO BE A COMMON MAN - A NEW VISION

It is my right to be uncommon, if i can. I seek opportunity, not security. i do not wish to be kept a citizen, humbled and by having the state look after me. I want to take the calculated risks to dream and to build, to fail and to succeed. I refuse to barter incentives for a dole and I prefer the challenges of life to the guaranteed existance! The thrill of fullfillment to the stale calm of utopia. I will not trade freedom for beneficence nor my dignity for a handout. I will never cover before any master nor bend to any threat. It is my heritage to stand erect, proud and unafraid, to think and act for myself, enjoy the benefits of my creations and to face the world bold and say.. THIS, I HAVE DONE

Saturday, February 6, 2010

CONGRATULATIONS MIN-GIN

Heartiest Congratulations to our friend Ming and Ginny for making the very promise and commitment Loon and I made to each other quite a few years back. There were many hard and testing times but there were also many fun and memorable experience only shared between the both of us. Cheers to Min-Gin!

The Art Of A Good Marriage

Wilferd Arlan Peterson

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created. In marriage the little things are the big things. It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry. It is at no time taking the other for granted; the courtship should not end with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years. It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives. It is standing together facing the world. It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice, but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other. It is cultivating flexibility, patience, understanding and a sense of humour.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget. It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old. It is a common search for the good and the beautiful. It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal, dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal. It is not only marrying the right partner; it is being the right partner.

~Loon & Cindy

2 comments:

Ginny said...

SO SWEET!!
Thank You so very very much!

see u soon Cindy!

TML: can we collect angpow from u since u not goin back to KCH :P
**next year cannot collect liao!!

Gong Hei Fatt Choy to u & your family, MAY THE TIGER BRING U GUYS ROARING PROSPERITY FILLED WITH GOOD HEALTH AND JOYFULNESS!!!

countloon said...

to my wife:

it is not about the diamond ring also k!! don't see mingin got diamond ring u also wanna have. ming korek the diamond frm the rov punya diamond cutter lah, he got wolverine to help him, that's why he can cut the diamond into the shape he wanted. if you want ring, i can get u rubber o ring frm my workshop lah, what size u want?

ginny: collect angpow frm me?? we sama sama taraf now lah. kalo last yr u ask me, i kasi lah since u masih bujang. nvm, next yr ask ur baby to come n collect frm me hahahahaha.

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